deter, unpersuade, discourage, disswade, disadvise, talk out of, put off, dispurpose, dehort, discounsel, more...

persuade, encourage, convince

reason, persuade, coerce, intimidate, bribe, threaten, force, more...

convince otherwise,   to discourage,   put me off,   put someone off,   to deter,   convince not to,   strongly discourage,   putting people off,   persuade against,   suggest against