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The word “unbecoming” has been wielded by authors over the centuries as a sharp critique of behavior, appearance, or even emotions that stray from established ideals of propriety and decorum. Classic works such as Fielding’s Joseph Andrews ([1]) and Napoleon’s Letters to Josephine ([2]) use it to denounce conduct that fails to meet societal expectations. Philosophers like Plato repeatedly employ the term to stress that certain actions or traits are unworthy of the ideal character, as seen in multiple passages ([3], [4], [5], [6], [7]), while other literary figures extend its use to comment on aesthetics and manners—whether it is describing an untimely display of emotion in Oscar Wilde and Cicero ([8], [9], [10], [11]) or critiquing inappropriate dress and behavior in works by Edgar Allan Poe, Mark Twain, and Florence Hartley ([12], [13], [14], [15]). In each instance, “unbecoming” serves as a succinct literary marker that condemns deviations from the expected standard of refinement, signaling that what is being acted, said, or worn does not befit the honor or dignity traditionally associated with its subject.
  1. I am indeed concerned to find her ladyship behave in so unbecoming a manner.
    — from Joseph Andrews, Vol. 1 by Henry Fielding
  2. how unbecoming it is!
    — from Napoleon's Letters to Josephine, 1796-1812 by Emperor of the French Napoleon I
  3. Utterly unbecoming.
    — from The Republic of Plato by Plato
  4. and nothing can be more unbecoming in philosophers than this.
    — from The Republic of Plato by Plato
  5. It is most unbecoming.
    — from The Republic by Plato
  6. In the next place, drunkenness and softness and indolence are utterly unbecoming the character of our guardians.
    — from The Republic by Plato
  7. and nothing can be more unbecoming in philosophers than this.
    — from The Republic by Plato
  8. For what is more unbecoming in a man than to cry like a woman?
    — from Cicero's Tusculan Disputations by Marcus Tullius Cicero
  9. What shall we say of those who think it unbecoming in a man to grieve?
    — from Cicero's Tusculan Disputations by Marcus Tullius Cicero
  10. Seriousness would be very unbecoming to him.
    — from An Ideal Husband by Oscar Wilde
  11. That is the most unbecoming thing there is.
    — from An Ideal Husband by Oscar Wilde
  12. Besides, the monarch is of gigantic stature, and the dress is therefore neither unbecoming nor over large.
    — from The Works of Edgar Allan Poe — Volume 1 by Edgar Allan Poe
  13. To come in, flushed from a hurried toilette, to meet your first callers, is unbecoming as well as rude.
    — from The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley
  14. To suck it is unlady-like, and let me tell you, excessively unbecoming.
    — from The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley
  15. Bright colors, and much jewelry are both unbecoming to a gentleman in the street.
    — from The Gentlemen's Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness by Cecil B. Hartley

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