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Literary notes about Condolence (AI summary)

Over the centuries, literature has depicted condolence not just as a mere formality but as a complex, emotionally charged act that ranges from formal letters of sympathy to heartfelt visits. Early writers, such as Jane Austen and Thackeray, present condolence as an expected social duty—whether in the form of an absent letter ([1]) or an overwhelming proliferation of sympathy cards ([2]). Etiquette manuals by Emily Post, Florence Hartley, and Cecil B. Hartley analyze the delicate balance required in conveying genuine sentiment while observing strict protocol; these works underscore that a letter of condolence is both challenging to construct and interpret ([3], [4], [5], [6]). Authors like Dickens and Oscar Wilde, in their narrative fiction, use the term to highlight the awkward blend of sorrow and formality in social interactions ([7], [8]). Finally, even classical texts such as those by Confucius and Thucydides incorporate condolence to both comfort and conform to cultural expectations during periods of mourning ([9], [10]).
  1. No letter of condolence had been sent to Ireland.
    — from Persuasion by Jane Austen
  2. Jos's friends, male and female, suddenly became interested about Emmy, and cards of condolence multiplied on her hall table.
    — from Vanity Fair by William Makepeace Thackeray
  3. The Letter Of Condolence Intimate letters of condolence are like love letters, in that they are too sacred to follow a set form.
    — from Etiquette by Emily Post
  4. Letters of Condolence are exceedingly trying, both to read and to write.
    — from The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley
  5. A letter of condolence may be abrupt, badly constructed, ungrammatical—never mind.
    — from Etiquette by Emily Post
  6. If you do not feel the trial, your task is still more difficult, for no letters demand truth, spoken from the heart, more than letters of condolence.
    — from The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley
  7. Poor Mrs Quilp, who had looked in a state of helplessness from one face of condolence to another, coloured, smiled, and shook her head doubtfully.
    — from The Old Curiosity Shop by Charles Dickens
  8. As I intend it to be a visit of condolence, I shan’t stay long.
    — from An Ideal Husband by Oscar Wilde
  9. He did not wear lamb's fur or a black cap, on a visit of condolence.
    — from The Analects of Confucius (from the Chinese Classics) by Confucius
  10. "Comfort, therefore, not condolence, is what I have to offer to the parents of the dead who may be here.
    — from The History of the Peloponnesian War by Thucydides

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